About


Hello loves and thanks for stopping by to check out my little corner on the interwebz.

Here you will find posts about life, fitsporation, recipes (sometimes healthy, sometimes not), quotes and whatever else is inspiring me at the moment!

Please feel inclined to be an active follower, comments, follows and shares are all welcome here!


My Groups

Texas Women Bloggers


Blogs I Love

Contemporary Harbor

Oh the things I think

Design and content Copyright Christy Tucker aka Life is a Lovely Dream. Powered by Blogger.

Blog Archive

Showing posts with label Personal. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Personal. Show all posts

Chicago | March 2014

#Photography #Travel #JuniperBloom #LifeisaLovelyDream

Last month the husband and I decided we would venture out of Texas for Spring Break and explore a new city. Can you guess where we went? Yep!

 C H I C A G O 

It was COLD and windy, but wow, we had a blast! However, I know you must be wondering why in the heck we chose to go to Chicago for Spring Break. I mean, hellooooo, it's freezing there! Aren't you supposed to go someplace warm? I have already been asked this question several times, and each time, with the same bewildered expression to accompany it. We chose Chicago for two main reasons!

1. We are going to be vacationing in Florida this Summer, which covers our bases for a warm vacation.
2. We have never been to Chicago before and have both always sorta wanted to see what the Windy City was all about. You know, with it being the THIRD largest city and all! 

We ate, we drank, we found some really amazing (authentic) blues dive bars, we tried one of the oldest ice cream parlors in the city, we went sightseeing, we drank TONS of coffee and hot chocolate, we hopped from train to train, we hailed taxis, we kissed in the snow at 4am, but most of all, we held hands, we enjoyed each others company while strolling along the city streets, we cuddled in our coats, we shared our dreams and we were in love. 

You might recall in one or several of my previous posts that my husband works out of state for 28 - 30 days at a time. So when we can afford the luxury of getting away together to reconnect, we steal it with no guilt or shame. It is such a bittersweet thing, him working out of state. Sure, I can catch up with my friends, and practically do whatever I want, when I want. It allows me a great deal of freedom, and I love that. Hell, for the first week.. ahem, maybe a little longer, I totally own my king size bed. I mean I sprawl out right in the middle, hog as much of the covers as possible. Wait.. I do that anyway. Damn. ;) But after a while I start to slowly feel the empty space of the bed suffocate any warmth that remains from him being there with me, the visions of him in my mind begin to dim slowly too. I get lonely. 

Through this experience I have learned that I am a very strong woman. Mostly due to one thing, people rudely asking me why we do this. Not out of general curiosity, but in a condescending, what is wrong with us, or we must not want to spent time together sort of way. Some have even been good friends of mine, so it has been hurtful to some degree. I am not saying everyone who asks has some rude intention or anything melodramatic like that. But some have. It used to hurt my feelings and I would get uncomfortable, but then I really thought about it. My husband and I are strong enough, in love enough and smart enough to make big sacrifices NOW for US later. In fact, everything is working out perfectly. We will finally be able to buy our FIRST house come the first of the new year, we will also be 100% debt free and have a killer savings account to boot. Sure, it is hard sometimes. But what we are gaining is so much more important than throwing in the towel for today's heartaches. 

Sometimes you've got to suck it up and persevere, my friends! 


Lovely Sparkley Snow


Hello all! :) Hubby was off work today so we decided to go ahead and take a rest day. One of the downsides to him working in Wyoming is that he is on call EVERY SINGLE DAY that he is here, so we thought it'd be best to take advantage of this day off and enjoy some quality time together. But don't worry loves, I will pick back up with the Twelve Days of Fitness | Day Four tomorrow.. So stay tuned for that! :D

This afternoon it began sleeting.. then BAM, it was full on snowing outside. I don't know about you, but I absolutely LOVE the snow. To me,  there is just something so magical and enchanting about snow.. It definitely brings out my inner child and everyone seems to perk up when snow is falling all around. Maybe it's because I am from Texas and we get zero snow, accept for the rare occurrence every few years? I dunno.. But I seriously love it when it snows. :) 

The best part about the snow today, for me, was after the sun had already set and it was dark outside. Where ever we went, the way the lights hit the snow, everything sparkled! It was like we were walking on glitter, or thousands upon thousands of diamonds. EVERYTING that was covered in snow sparkled. It was something I have never seen before and it was beyond beautiful. 

Sigh

I think I could possibly maybe live here..

XOXOX

Positive Polly... CONTINUED

Well, yesterday ended up being a complete "CLUSTER".. if ya-know-whud-i-mean! I did remain to keep my wits about me and remained cool and collected, but holy Jebus, how frustrating. I sat in the Denver airport until around 8pm. I was supposed to be out of there by 3pm.

BUT

I'm here!! My husband ended up driving to Denver to pick me up and we still beat the plane to Wyoming, that is just crazy y'all.. just crazy. So as you already know if you read yesterdays post I was supposed to fly into Laramie, WY. Our plane was coming out of Salt Lake City and they just couldn't get off the ground due to weather conditions, those poor bastards sat on the runway for over 4 hours. So, I guess I really can't complain, at least I was able to sit in the airport. #winning Our flight was changed over 6 times, and thought it was for safety concerns.. it was so disheartening. Naturally I kept hubby updated and when we found out my flight wouldn't (possibly) be there until after 8pm, he decided to drive in from Laramie and pick me up. He is seriously my hero! It was around 5pm when we got that update, so since we weren't even sure if the flight was going to be cancelled he wanted to pick me up so I didn't have to risk sleeping at the airport. What a guy that one! sighs heavily while swooning 

When I woke up today this is what I saw.


So I am peachy keen. :)
Until next time my lovelies!
XOXOX


Positive Polly

Hello my darlings! :)

Guess where I am? Denver, Colorado!

I am in limbo right now, I originally flew from Texas to Denver then from Denver to Wyoming but wasn't able to land in Wyoming due to weather. So, here I am, right back in Denver typing you a lovely blog post about humility and being positive.

Yeah, of course it was a little annoying when I heard the stewardess announce that the flight may not make it to my destination, where my husbands awaits my arrival, but what can I do about it? It was really nerve racking because here I am trying to "just keep swimming" (-dory) and all I hear around me are groans and people complaining. Yes, I completely understand that everyone's situation is completely different and it might not be as easy for some to take this delay with a grain of salt.. but for the sake of this blog post I am referencing the folks that were just getting angry because well, they can.

We all deplaned and made our way to Customer Service and it was there that I began to feel extremely overwhelmed. Everyone was getting bad news because for one reason or another there just weren't any available flights for an entire airplane full of people to get into Wyoming today. To add to that frustration the airline is not responsible for accommodating your hotel or rental car, just the flight. But that is another story for another day! So the employees are getting berated by angry customers and literally felt like I was a sponge, absorbing all of that negativity and anger. I could feel my cheeks flush and my face got hot from my growing anxiety, yuck!

Though I understand and sympathize with the customers, I do not feel that it is okay to take your frustration out on innocent employees that are merely doing their job. It is not the employees fault, or anyone else's fault for that matter, that it is snowing in Wyoming or that we could not land due to the airline being bound by legalities due to visibility requirements in order to make a descent. Ummm, hello!! I don't want to die because your angry behind is in a rush. Until today I had no idea that legally the airline has to have clear visibility of the runway from "X" amount of feet or they cannot even attempt a descent. Now it seems pretty commonsenseical (it is too a word, shh), but I never thought about it before. I never had to! I'm from flipping Texas.

I was on the same flight as they were, I was inconvenienced in a similar, or in some cases the same way as most on the flight.. but I chose to see the positive in the situation. I had a choice. I could try and fly somewhere else, or I could shell out the money for a cab and a hotel for the night and pray there would be a flight before tomorrow evening, and that wasn't looking good. So I chose to fly into Laramie, WY. The first time I ever came to Wyoming I flew into Laramie's airport.. if you can call if that! It is literally the size of a small town post office. I will dig up the photo and post it for you guys so you can see just how tiny it really is.


The moral of this incredibly long story is that instead of getting angry and having a bad day over something out of my control, I had lunch at a "fancy" restaurant in Denver, Colorado.. I have never done that before so it was fun and exciting, even if it was just at the airport. While I enjoyed my lunch I heard a great song play that I hadn't heard in a long time and I sat there and contemplated life and where I am in it. I allowed myself to feel good about that moment and to feel good about being me.. I was proud that I complemented the employees and thanked them for their help and commended them for being as tolerant as they could in their situations and they noticeably responded to that. In fact, their demeanor's softened and my heart overflowed with generosity knowing I made that moment better for them in an unpleasant situation.







  

What's more?

I allowed myself to enjoy some damn pizza for my good behavior! ;D Even if it was a margarita pizza.. it was so worth it.


Today I'm a Grateful Grapefruit


Everyday when I log on to Facebook (don't hate) I am greeted with so many inspiring and warmhearted posts about what you are thankful for. Since I have yet to jump on the bandwagon, I figured I would dedicate a post about the things I am thankful for and get caught up! :) 



ONE




"We may not have it all together, but together we have it all." 

I am beyond thankful for my family! No matter what curveballs life throws my way or the mistakes I have undoubtedly made throughout my lifetime, my family is always there providing forgiveness, guidance, acceptance, support, encouragement and above all, love and companionship. Without my family I would truly be one lost and lonely gal. 

TWO


"A successful marriage isn't the union of two perfect people. It's that of two imperfect people who have learned the value of forgiveness and grace." -Darlene Schacht

If I sat here and told you that we have the perfect marriage, I would be a fool and a liar. Am I ashamed or embarrassed to admit that? Heck no! To be honest, I don't want perfect because perfect doesn't exist and if it did it would bore the daylights out of me. I want real. Don't you? I want the raw passion that only comes from loving someone intensely and intimately. I truly feel I have grown so much as an individual since meeting my husband, because of our differences. We may not always agree and we have our share of highs and lows.. that is life, that is love. 

However, what we have surpasses any love that I have ever thought I could/would have. He is my rock when I need strength or shelter from this crazy world and the crazy people that inhabit it. He is my lover, and my, what a lover he is. He is my best friend 24-7. When he is away, I could be surrounded by all of my family members and friends, but I always feel lonely without him near. He has taught me that there are (gasp, dare I say it?!!) still GENTLEMEN left in the world and that chivalry is not dead. He makes me laugh until I giggle-snort. He tickles me when I'm mad and I don't want to laugh. Who am I kidding? He tickles me just to tickle me most of the time. lol :) He is so incredibly brilliant, I swear the man knows how to fix practically everything with his own hands. Which, come on ladies.. that is an incredibly sexy quality in a man. Am I right? The point is.. that every marriage is and will be different, learn to stop comparing your relationship(s) to other peoples, appreciate that yours is meant to be different and create your own love story. The way YOU want it to be. Marriage is something you do, everyday. It is a choice, just like happiness. I am so blessed because each and everyday we write a new page in our love story together, everyday is a new adventure in love. 

THREE





"True friendship multiplies the good in life and divides its evils. Strive to have friends, for life without friends is like life on a desert island... to find one real friend in a lifetime is good fortune; to keep them is a blessing." -Baltasar Gracian

Where on earth do I even begin? Say hello to my bestie. My wiefy! Mrs. Ashleigh Peterson. :) Ashleigh and I have known each other since around 1st grade. I know right?! That's a LONG time! So I guess it is safe to say that this girl just gets me. Genuinely gets me. And for me, personally speaking, being understood is a high want on my list.. because us (points to self) Capricorns are of the most misunderstood signs of the zodiac, so they say. And I believe it! 

What I have always admired and respected about Ashleigh is that throughout the many many moons we have known one another we have drifted apart and come back together several times, riding along life's course trying to find out who we are as individuals. No matter how much time has passed, or why, I ALWAYS know where I stand with her. ALWAYS There are no Mean Girls head games, gossip, fake behavior or any judgement.. and honey-chil' that is rare in a friend these days. TRUST ME. What's more? I have always felt like I can be my 100% authentic self around her, and that too is (sadly) something rare to find. 

These days, what really keeps me in awe of her is the woman she is today, and everyday growing to be. She is the proud mother of THREE beautiful, brilliant children and an amazing wife. Everyday I am so inspired by her. Her patience. Her dedication. Her passion. Her natural beauty. Her genuine character. Her heart and soul. Just simply.. her, to be honest. I truly love that girl so muches and I do not know what I would do without her! 

I'm a Fighter

Well.. well.. so we meet again!

Phew!!

School has been seriously whooping up on me, and ruling my life. So now that we have a little down time until finals arrive, here I am! ;D

If you have an Instagram, tumblr, Twitter or Facebook account feel free to connect with me through those avenues to see my other updates when I am not able to dedicate the proper amount of attention to writing a full on blog post. You can do so by clicking on my social networking icons below my header (the top of the blog)! As always, thank you much for taking the time to stop by, your presence is greatly welcomed and appreciated. :D

Let's get down to business, shall we?  

9 months ago (holy bleep batman, it's already been 9 stinking months?!!) I got serious about dropping 25 pounds. I was at one of my most miserable states of my existence and was in desperate need of a change. So I put on my big girl boxing gloves and fought like a champ! In my corner I had the Jillian Michaels Body Revolution program and the South Beach Diet coaching me, and turned to the wonderful world of #fitspo on Instagram for inspiration and support from so many lovely women that are fighting the good fight, just like most of us are on a daily basis.

In the process of completing the Body Rev. I not only lost 20 pounds, I have gained so much more than I ever imagined and am now fully committed to living a healthy lifestyle through following a (mostly) clean eating diet, and working out at least 5 days per week. As a result, 7 weeks ago I reached my goal weight of losing 25 pounds (weighing 135 lbs) and have managed to keep it off since then.





If you are just starting out on your fitness journey, just keep in mind that you will not see results over night, it takes time. Setting realistic goals is key to keeping yourself focus and on the right track. Just know that you WILL see results with persistence and HARD WORK. I don't think I noticed real results for a good 3 months, but once I did, I was bound and determined to keep at it and to keep kicking ass and taking names with my progress. Sure, I am 100% human and there were several days where I just didn't want to do it. I made every excuse known to man, yes, even the ones you say to yourself too, but I MADE MYSELF workout. Guess what? I didn't die. I actually felt better as a result!

There will ALWAYS be days where it will be so much more convenient to throw in the towel.. to quit.. to let those negative voices in your mind to conquer you.. to let the haters win.. BUT. You've got to dig down deep and realize YOUR happiness is at stake. Yes, you might not want to do it, but you will be so glad that you kept at it once you start seeing results, if you quit, you absolutely will not see any changes, period. End of story.

So what's it gonna be?

Failure?

or

Success? 

Do You Ever Feel Like You Just Need A Break From The Internet?

Hello my lovelies, I hope you have all had a fantastic weekend, as I have!

This past weekend I decided to have an "internet / apps detox".

Why?

I began to notice that my face was always planted on my screen with endless scrolling, commenting, and interacting through cyberspace in one form or another. Though I really enjoy interacting and networking with current and new friends through Instagram, Tumblr, Facebook and Twitter, as silly as it may sound, I honestly began to feel a bit caught up and overwhelmed by it all. So, I figured I would just take the weekend off to chill out a bit, and it was totally worth it! Not feeling the urge to snap photos to post on Instagram, or to document my thoughts or actions on Twitter, Facebook or Tumblr has been very freeing. I could just simply enjoy the moment for what it was and enjoy the simplicity of it all.

I truly recommend doing that from time to time, you won't regret it!

In other news, my husband and I had a very productive weekend! We finally got around to unpacking our bookshelf and organized it with some of our favorite books and knickknacks, made a few changes to our decor, bought some new furniture and have made plans for our upcoming winter vacation. Phew! It has been a very busy weekend, to say the least.

When our lease was up at our last apartment we decided to move into our current apartment for two main reasons. One being that they accepted our Saint Bernard, Joon, and two because we would be paying $525 less in rent alone. Since our main goal is to be able to buy our first house after this lease is up, it seemed like a no brainier to save that much money a month! The one downside is that it has been a drastic downgrade in ascetics, storage and counter space in the kitchen. In our last apartment, we got used to our beautiful wood floors, very large kitchen, granite counter tops and space. On top of those adjustments, we just didn't have the furniture or accent pieces to fit our current space, so it hasn't really felt like a home yet. So I'm sure you can image our excitement in finally being able to decorate our apartment and to make if feel like a home!

I cannot wait to be able to share some photos with you all once everything has been delivered and set up, I think you will love it!